Was told to post a new thread:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2788542&page=1

To bring you up to speed.

Together 21 years. Married 18.
Kids 14 and 11. I'm 51 W is 44.

Marriage spiraled out of control over the last couple of years due to huge financial crisis culminating in bankruptcy, foreclosure, etc. We didn't have anyone so we ended up taking it out on each other for the most part. W has serious health issues that we deal with daily. Believe she is in a MLC and a WW as well.

She is still presently dead set on leaving.
Working on myself and the DB steps vigilantly.

I am not a saint and own my part in our issues. Hoping she will eventually see the light and realize our MR is worth her time so we can focus and have a better life than ever together.

I will post more as it happens....


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18