Police also made the comment last night, that I should probably not let W leave anywhere with the kids. That I couldn't keep her from seeing them (which I am not), but it would be in my best interest to have a third party around while she saw them. He was afraid that if she left with them, she wouldn't bring them back, and there would be nothing I could do about it because there is currently no court ordered custody. My parents offered for me and the kids to stay at their place this week until I talk to the L on Wednesday to get some sort of custody arranged. That way she wouldn't be coming by the house causing a scene in front of the kids. If she wants to see them so badly, she is more than welcome to come there to see them...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...