Police also made the comment last night, that I should probably not let W leave anywhere with the kids. That I couldn't keep her from seeing them (which I am not), but it would be in my best interest to have a third party around while she saw them. He was afraid that if she left with them, she wouldn't bring them back, and there would be nothing I could do about it because there is currently no court ordered custody. My parents offered for me and the kids to stay at their place this week until I talk to the L on Wednesday to get some sort of custody arranged. That way she wouldn't be coming by the house causing a scene in front of the kids. If she wants to see them so badly, she is more than welcome to come there to see them...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019