Loving detachment..you are so right. It's like I've forgotten everything... I am getting back to basics.
You know I try to show him, tell him I love him and it's like I have to constantly do that. The other night he made some comment about not caring something like "everybody except you" and I said what do I have to do to show you "jump off the roof" to which he replied, under his breath, like a smart a**, sarcastically "I wish you would" Now my H's sense of humor and mine or kind of alike sometimes...I just laughed because it did not bother me at all.
And the other night when I couldn't get hold of him, I left him two voicemails regarding where he was, was he picking up son, thought he'd be there to distract S4 and then thought about the messages and left him ANOTHER voicemail saying "oh and I love you" so three voicemails in less then ten minutes.
I am getting back to basics.