Quote: "there is nothing in my life that makes me happy anymore" - he was tired, he was hurting, he was hot, he was bothered by something that happened to work - but the funny thing is at that moment they really can't think of anything that makes them happy
It's so sad because from where I'm sitting I see so many good things about my H's life. H has a lot more than a lot of people have, but he can't see that from his prison.
When I spoke with H this morning he was still in his bear mood. Hates his job, says it's the only constant in his life and it's taking him nowhere..yeah a lot of jobs are like that. H seems to forget he makes very good money and can afford a lot of things other people can't.
Told him I had plans to meet a gf for dinner and "oh we have an event tonight!" Okay I'll pick up S which means I won't be stopping off at the bar--just his tone of voice! The anger isn't really directed at me or anybody, H is venting. He's just not happy. And besides he was going to look at a boat anyway, when all was said and done, H was just being a bear about me having plans and him having to pick up son.
I told H to go look at his boat, I'll pick up S, I can wait till H gets home or maybe drop him at SIL's until H gets home. SS20 is also coming over tonight so maybe he can pick up his brother.
H just likes everything to think his life is sooo awful...when it's not.
I just listen to my H vent, just I like I do any other friend and try to keep "me" out of it as it really has nothing to do with me at all!
