Advice on my Scenario Pt.4

[OrangeK]

If your wife is cheating and all he did was dent the car, i give orange tons of credit.

This happened MONTHS after i found out about the affair. The "Dent" incident happened after a MC meeting, 3 months after i knew about the affair. The prior 3 months were spent pleading to save M, asking her to come home after she left "to take space" in Oct the day of BD.

She deliberately pushed my buttons and drove me into a rage at the MC meeting.
Due to said Dent i now have had my TRO extended a full year, with a fine to be imposed if i violate it, so now MIL has to do all the pickups and drop offs with me for the next year. and i had to pay 1k in damages.