Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
W never shoed up at noon yesterday. Finally sent me a text at 5:00 asking, "Can we do this now?". The kids and I were at a cook out at a friend's house. I didn't respond. Left my phone on the counter and when I checked it an hour later, I had 7 missed calls from her. Went home and I was getting the kids ready for bed, and she shows up in the driveway. I ask her to leave and she says she wants to see the kids. It was late and I did not want to deal with her BS, so I go back inside and she comes do the door and repeatedly rings the door bell nonstop. Same thing every time. She shows up wanting money, and then turns things around saying she wants to see the kids and I'm keeping them from her. I called my parents to come over, so there would be a third party around, and she called the cops. Not sure what they told her, but she was getting ready to leave and asked if I was going to give her the $200 for the ring. This is the one mistake I made. When she held the ring out, I snatched it from her hand and went inside. I know I shouldn't have done it, but I was mad and my emotions got the best of me. She went to the police station and said I stole the ring, and the cops showed up saying I had to give her the money or the ring. I ended up giving them the money. Weird part is, they said the ring was marital property, so I'm not exactly sure how I could steal it. Because the past couple of times she has called them to try to take things from the house, they informed me that if she broke into the house and took things, I couldn't do anything about it because the things were marital property. Anyway, mistake on my part. Can't be undone. Meeting with a lawyer this week to proceed with D and get custody of the kids...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Wow, she sounds like a child. Don't worry so much about the ring. But seriously, how far is $200 going to get her? I fully expect her to call you in next couple of days playing nice again.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Wow, she sounds like a child. Don't worry so much about the ring. But seriously, how far is $200 going to get her? I fully expect her to call you in next couple of days playing nice again.
I doubt she will be calling me anytime soon, or being nice for that matter. I've made it pretty clear that I don't want her around and she's not getting any money from me. She's very spiteful, and after last night, she'll be pretty hateful towards me. I also had OM send me a couple of texts saying he hopes I feel "Like a real man, roughing up a woman and having mommy and daddy come to my rescue". Next text mentioned that everyone in town is going to find out that I've been abusing my wife for years, which I obviously have not. But it really pisses me off that they are saying these things about me and are now planning on starting rumors. Oh well, I am a firm believer that everything comes out in the wash. They'll get theirs in the end. I'm just gonna play it cool, take care of myself and the kids, and pretend like she doesn't exist. Take her a$$ to court, get custody of the kids, and move on and let her live her $hitty life that she's creating for herself...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
They all go to that eventually. The courts know this though and with no pattern of abuse (no police records of DV calls) there is no teeth to the accusations.
OM sounds like a piece of work.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
They all go to that eventually. The courts know this though and with no pattern of abuse (no police records of DV calls) there is no teeth to the accusations.
OM sounds like a piece of work.
He definitely is. The best part?... I went on judici.com (website with arrest records in our state) and OM was found guilty on 2 counts of domestic battery. Isn't it ironic? Don't ya think?...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
They all go to that eventually. The courts know this though and with no pattern of abuse (no police records of DV calls) there is no teeth to the accusations.
OM sounds like a piece of work.
He definitely is. The best part?... I went on judici.com (website with arrest records in our state) and OM was found guilty on 2 counts of domestic battery. Isn't it ironic? Don't ya think?...
What a creep! OM get no respect from me. They are always giant losers. My wife's. EA was with the biggest loser in the world. I saw once he posted a song in tribute to his deceased mother saying he thinks she'd be proud of her son. LOL He lives with his elderly father, is unemployed high school dropout with a divorce under his belt and multiple convictions including a felony for forgery trying to obtain prescription narcotics. Yeah I'm sure she'd be strutting around about her son!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Police also made the comment last night, that I should probably not let W leave anywhere with the kids. That I couldn't keep her from seeing them (which I am not), but it would be in my best interest to have a third party around while she saw them. He was afraid that if she left with them, she wouldn't bring them back, and there would be nothing I could do about it because there is currently no court ordered custody. My parents offered for me and the kids to stay at their place this week until I talk to the L on Wednesday to get some sort of custody arranged. That way she wouldn't be coming by the house causing a scene in front of the kids. If she wants to see them so badly, she is more than welcome to come there to see them...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Weird part is, they said the ring was marital property, so I'm not exactly sure how I could steal it.
Count yourself lucky. My ex didn't want a fancy ring when we got married, so we had an artist make a custom setting with her grandmother's diamond in it. The diamond was small and not worth a lot but had sentimental value. Fast forward to a couple years before BD my ex decided she wanted a really nice ring. We shopped around and got her one that was over 7k, completely paid for by yours truly. She quit wearing it after BD so I tucked it away. After we separated she asked for it back. I can't remember who I talked to or what I read, but I was under the impression it was her property since it was a "gift" to her and I gave it back to her. Have never seen it since or gotten 1 cent for it. I later found out it's considered marital property and should have been part of the splitting of assets. Crap!
Your W continues to blow my mind. You must have the patience of a saint to put up with all that craziness!
It was a gift to her because an engagement ring is prior to M, you can't have it back if you don't M. Here is the rub, it's still a Marital Asset if you do M! Unless an heirloom it's chattels.
I put the damn thing in the G storage box, when asked in court where it was I said it was on the list of assets in the possession of the G.
He hadn't unpacked so hadn't a clue what was in the over 40 storage boxes. Wait until he finds 19 cans of deodorant, 268 pairs of underpants and 325 pairs of socks. Twelve empty beer bottles carefully washed. 68 handkerchiefs all washed, starched and ironed. 2 broken irons, 15 miscellaneous hoover attachments.......
I hope he ships it all to Italy before he does.
I packed it all, clean neatly and Carefully! Including over 200 golf balls.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
