Im sorry nicole. I really dont agree with your post (except the part about depression amd seeking support)
You seem very sweet but i think some of your advice is very 1950s stepford wivish and a bit dangerous.
I think leaving his son for a few months would be very dangerous. It would make it difficult for him to have any claims to custody and would not be good for his son who needs a stable parent. His wife is not stable and is bringing him into bed with OM.
"Trying to fix the things that hurt my husband"
Ugh. Hes cheating on you with a 26 year old!!!! F him. I am sure he deserved any bit of sarcasm cause he sounds like a POS. You probably knew deep down what he was up to hence the angry tones. 180s are valid in some situations, but just perpetuate the gaslighting those of us have been exposed to.
If your wife is cheating and all he did was dent the car, i give orange tons of credit.
People, we need to stop with the psychobabble and get a little more realistic!!!!
