something my husband said day before yesterday made my think of your husband...
"there is nothing in my life that makes me happy anymore" - he was tired, he was hurting, he was hot, he was bothered by something that happened to work - but the funny thing is at that moment they really can't think of anything that makes them happy
your husband is really searching. he is pushing so many buttons to make YOU make the decision on what to do, so he has ONE MORE PERSON he can blame beside himself
don't let him do it cathy, stay strong, you are worth so much more than that