Quote: After working on ourselves and finding the direction we want to go in, one the hardest things to do is sit there on the curb ... wait and watch while our S's continue to stumble around the block time after time ... around and around they go ... enough to make anyone watching dizzy.
This is soo true, especially when they are at home. It was easier when H wasn't home.
Quote: The hardest part for you is asking yourself, do you think he is capable?
That is the million dollar question!!
Quote: and if you are not sure, how long are you willing to wait to find out?
I think about that once a while..you know how long do I give him?
Quote: but having to live with an unhappy spouse
My H hasn't been happy since I met him. In fact, I don't think he's ever been happy for too long. Tonight he's looking at a boat and said he's buying it if he likes it. I said go for it. Up till now his attempts to buy a used boat have been fruitless. H waits too long, if it's a good deal you have to be the first one there! H works so it's kind of hard, but today he was the first one! I hope it's in good shape and then he'll have his boat...we'll have a boat.
