This is not a typical break up. Thats why your having trouble. There was conning and gaslighting and betrayal.
Its hard to believe that there are people in the world capapble of this until you actually meet them. I have an aquaintance that is a wayward that basically told me she went for her ex husband cause she ws aging and wanted a child. His business went under and she was outta there. (All the moms avoid her cause shes always leaving her kids with them any chance she can get to go out to dinner or go on dates)
There are people out there that are that selfish. And yeah, you fell for one. I did too. I was a cover story for a secret addict. Its easy, because i think a part of them falls for their own lies too. "Its only a lie if you believe it to be" Is there motto.
You were conned. You were a victim. But you dont have to continue to be victimized. Cut the strings from her. She is toxic.
Maybe evaluate what made you susceptible to that type of persons bullsh!t in the first place. Lonely? Insecure?
People have told you numerous times. You have won, if the 2 of them end up with each other.
Focus on the big picture. Getting custody and making surw you have legal protection so your son isnt sleeping in the samr bed as the 2 of them.
