Thanks for the link RR very insightful stuff from Sandi2
Vanilla,
this scrambled eggs effect- doesn't your maternal instinct trump this? When your child is hurting isn't it a knee jerk reaction to say what's wrong -let me take your pain away?
In sandi's post it says the thing that jars women back to reality is a significant loss. Doesn't the potential loss of your child fall into that category? The fact he wants nothing to do with her and yet she walks around like it's ok. can someone explain his to me? From my paternal standpoint, the minute I se S hurting-I go in to protection mode and would do anything to take the pain away. Why not W? Thanks again !!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
