I guess I shouldn't say consensus because there were people that didn't agree. Rather, the ultimate decision I made at the time was to not confront, after Sandi talked me down from the ledge.
M: 26 W: 26 M: 1.5 T: 3 No kids BD: 31 March 2018
W's affair began: 23 March 2018 Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018 Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018 Ended in-house separation: July 2018