Gotdie #19: patience, trust...and hope

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Gordie

I agree with Bttrfly-

Try to be neutral, validate each side as if your a distant therapist- and allow them to either work it out or not
If you D gets upset, explain to her you love her and respect her feelings and her side
and if W complains ,maybe find a way to nod, listen maybe without any verbal comments or agreements..maybe just mirror back what she says-I'm sorry your and D are having a hard time-

W has to figure it out and if you remind her the "truth"
she will probably point the finger at you

Hard situation
Stay out as much as you can and still let D know you are here for her and hear her-
Good luck