V - I agree with you. There are definitely evil people in this world and this board is full of such people who have done horrendous things. Any LBS in a situation with a person like that should just walk away and rebuild their lives IMHO>

Thanks for the kinds words about my journey. It wouldn't have been possible without people like you here. Your assistance in helping me figure out how to approach my goals was really helpful.

I am practicing gratitude on a daily basis and I have two beautiful children who keep me on my toes and are also helping me grow as a person. I do feel like a success because I have clarity and purpose and ways to achieve my goals rather than just being in a depressed paralytic state, which I was before.

Arshi - thanks for your kind words. I cannot imagine being in a situation with such a young child and going through this. Just know that there is happiness and joy and success, and it does not depend on you being able to recon your marriage. Just focus on YOU and how you are able to find those spaces and time pockets to get relief for yourself. Your H is acting out tantrums and sounds emotionally immature - let him go and do his thing. He's going to quickly find out that the world outside is not full of roses.


No one is coming to save you!