Thanks, V.... You make it seem easy. I guess it's just gonna take practice...
Side note, I was going through some papers that were in the van, and came across some CEFS paperwork. W had requested rental assistance from CEFS, and is claiming that she was homeless and taking care of the kids. On top of that, she made a statement in one of the papers that she was "leaving a domestic violence situation", which came as a complete shock to me. I've never once even thought of hurting her. She is also making claims that she has been giving me money for the past couple of months to help with bills and childcare costs. I can't believe that she is being this dishonest, but at the same time I'm not surprised. She is telling everyone what they need to hear to get what she wants. It blows my mind that she made the domestic violence comments, while at the same time has been stringing me along, telling me she loves me, and saying she wants things to work out. Calling me yesterday wanting to be friends?!?! Why would you want to be friends with someone that is supposedly violent with you? W is living in a complete fantasy land...
Now you know you can't unknow.
It's another step forward in healing. Some of us get there through disgust rather than anger.
Just validate, sorry you have to sell your ring, it will resolve the car issue for you though.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
