I always felt disgust at people like that. And i thought i was smart in choosing a partner. I knew from my first boyfriend that men who were smooth talkers, heavy complimenters, vain about their appearance were the types of guys to avoid.
My ex was not that way at all so i really never saw this coming. This was different.
You dont know what you dont know. There wasnt any tests of time or circumstances when i met him. We were both young.
He is so neglectful of our son. My brother had to make the choice of pulling his only child off of life support. He would give anything to have the privilege of being a parent.
My ex has a brilliant healthy son and does the bare minimum with him. To me, peopke like that are just bad, or sh!tty at the core. They lack something.
And they are what is destructive to society, not the opposite.
Its people like my ex that were the need for laws that are easily exploited by many equally despicable female walkaways on this board.
