W just called and told me she needed money, so she was going to pawn her engagement ring. They offered her $200. I paid over $1700 for the thing. Then she asked if I would buy it from her. Then she quickly added, "I'm not going to use the money for drugs" and said she needed an oil change and a new tire for the van. She said she needed the money tonight. I told her I didn't have it, and if she wanted to sell it to me, she'd have to wait until tomorrow. I didn't want to take it back from her at first, because I don't want to enable her, but she was going to get the money from a pawn shop anyway. That and it is worth much more than that, and our plan was to give it to our daughter someday. So I agreed to buy it from her. I'm not sure if this was the right thing to do, but like I said, she was going to get $200 for it somewhere and it's worth much more than that. And believe it or not, it still does hold some importance to me, and I would like to give it to my daughter someday. So I guess I have to have a WW encounter tomorrow. Wish me luck...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019