No, no, no. Dont be jealous of others on the board that are still living with and pining for spouses that are cheatung and making fools of them.
You have a gift. The gift of knowing the truth. You now finally know what shes capable of. Hl dangerou for people who dont. Or who wont see.
A lot of people on here like to say that they are waiting for their apouses to hit rock bottom, so that maybe they will return.
I think we have to hit rock bottom. Theres freedom in knowing that there's no way to go but up. Thats where you are now.
Anger can take a long time. And i feel exactly as you do regarding the unfairness of your ex. But i think its a better place to be then wishing for them back. Cause then that gives them power to take advantage and expolit you. And they will if the can. But you know that now.
