Called H this morning to see if he'd pick up S as I'd like to grocery shop in peace. He then gives me the run around on what he's doing tonight. Say's it's his drinking night first and then says he's not coming home...has to go to town that OW lives in to listen to a message I left there for him...funny he doesn't use her name a whole lot, just the town. If he's trying to push me away he then uses OW's name. He told me the exact words that I said on the message, wouldn't say how he knew. I said why do you have to go if you know what the message is? I just said fine then if you have to go you have to go.
He then brought up the trust issue again. I asked him to be in my shoes and I'm the one that's seeing someone else and he said "then I'd have to make a decision" and then H said I'm going to do that soon. I'm going to flip a coin and whatever side it is I'm going to go there becuase I really don't care when I'm at. I said "I'm sorry you feel that way, mabye someday you won't" and H just agreed..kind of sarcastically.
H then says I'll pick up S I'm just giving you a hard time. But, I am going to a retirement party next Wednesday for a guy his works with he says. We then talk about his job, when he can retire, etc. H asked how my party went last night. I then ask him what he wants for groceries, does he want to come, no he doesn't "I know what to get" does offer a few suggestions.
We then say good bye to each other..about a 15 minute phone call I would say.
