Originally Posted By: mtb1981
As hard as it may be, I've made the desision to stay positive. Any time I'm feeling down, she wins.


Excellent way of looking at it. I wont let her win, she may have taken some battles, but i shall stand the victor of the war (bad metaphor i know, as i am trying to be positive, but hey. She fired the first shot)


Originally Posted By: mtb1981
You say that your W has it all and is getting everything she wants, but it seems to me like she's a real piece of crap. I would rather be a good person going through a rough time than a piece of crap always getting my way. And that's what makes us better than them. You'll be fine, dude. Like my buddy said last night, "Your life isn't sh!tty, just your current situation"...


"You say that your W has it all and is getting everything she wants, but it seems to me like she's a real piece of crap."

She certainly is. lol. this made me laugh just because of the bluntness of it. haha. I know time will show the truth of the matter, and it will also defeat her as she never plans for the future, never thinks about anybody but herself, and how people can serve her needs and desires. Any person living life like that is eventually going to step on landmines.

"I would rather be a good person going through a rough time than a piece of crap always getting my way"

Also true. There is value in being the bigger person for sure. When my soon is a teenager and can see who his parents really are, it will be worth it then.
I just hope she hits RB and gets some help before then.
Not holding my breath.




Imma keep riding the roller-coaster and eventually it will come to a stop and ill catch the eye of a pretty lass as i go bnack out the turnstile.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds