Newly20 great advice...yeah the idea that they didnt fall in love with us overnight is helpful. Really trying to finally focus on me. It is hard as I can get into obsessive compulsive headspace where I just focus on her ... any tips on getting out if OCD


M 40 W 34
Together 7 Married 2
No Kids
BD 1/18 need space
Moved out 2/18
ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18
W filed for D 6/18
D final 10/18