Originally Posted By: Newly20
My WAW left the house 2 weeks after BD, and only 6 weeks since seperation and she has already filed for divorce!


Newly, this surely [censored]. However at least you can still communicate.
Also, it sounds more like a Knee jerk reaction from your Wife. If i had to guess, I'd say in a few weeks time she may have second thoughts. SHe was probably looking for a shock response. Keep DBing andf GAL and she will see the changes. give it some time. you still have hope.


Originally Posted By: Newly20
You have no idea if any of what your doing is affecting your W

I have my guesses, none of them good, but at this point I dont care what is affecting her, unless its to make her own up to her sh!tty behaviors. I hope she feels guilt, i hope she feels shame. I dont think she does, or at least has packaged it away in a dark corner of her mind, and justified it.

Originally Posted By: Newly20
If anything you can look back at your post in the future and see how far you've come.

This is a good point. I look forward to laughing at all of this in a few years time.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds