S is not going to rationalize away Ws feeling. Guilting her back-in-line is even worse. I believe God has us exactly where he wants us. We simply don't understand why at this time. Accepting this is no easy task.
Your S will be fine. How you navigate your sitch is more important than how Ws is behaving in the immediate. Think about it. Here is an opportunity to show how a man works to save his M/R.
We can't control the people in our lives. In my case, it is a major part of why I am here. We can only control how we respond. Prayer and God bless.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
