trying again! I was on my phone - will see if laptop is better.
I feel like I am living in limbo and I am trying hard not get frustrated. There has been a few positives in the last month. Lots of birthdays, which all went well, lots of family time. Including him coming for a meal with my parents (hasn't seen my parent since before BD. Husband and I have spent lots of time chatting, laughing, watching TV together but no relationship talk and he remains sleeping downstairs. No intimacy - no hugs and no kisses, but lots of laughing together and he loves to tease me. He has been doing lots of work on the house and is asking my opinion on things (flooring, paint colour etc....). He seems to want to spend time with me. To people who don't know about the situation they wouldn't have a clue that anything was amiss.
Do I continue to wait for him to start a relationship conversation? I did ask him if he fancied going for a drink today but he said he had plans but thanked me for the offer. It is now over 4 months since BD - is this still early days?
M: 17 T:17 Me:42 H:48 BD 23/12/2017 H says ‘I don’t want to be married’ D 17 D 15, D 13, S 10, S 10