Lone,

Its up to you to make that decision. I wore mines until the W and I decided to Recon. Then I took it off and put it up for sale. That old M is dead and everything that came with it.

It's no definitive answer about when to stop wearing your ring.

On another note.

I agree with V on the situation with your S and his mother. I would also talk to your S and tell him to think about buying your W A ticket if she don't decide to go, then explain to him that his mom loves him. He only gets one mother. You be the best dad you can be, but you don't want your son learning vindictive habits. Love is hard even for kids.

I lost my mother in Hurricane Katrina, no matter what she did to me, I would give anything to just hear her voice again. My W had an A but she is a great mother. I can never take that away from her. Even in her A. Her number one priority were the boys.

Don't teach or allow your son to hate or be vindictive towards his mother. Men should treat all women with respect, especially the one that gave birth to them. Two wrongs dont make a right. Show your son a hard right beats easy wrongs all day.


M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.