I suspect once she sees your distancing from her starting to widen, she will try to blame you for her leaving. That will be a good time to say. I understand how you could feel that way.
If she doesnt find a job soon prepare yourself for watching her hit the bottom. We never know How for S will allow themselves to sink.
You are doing great. I really proud of you sticking to your guns on that $2000 situation. You gave her tough love in that situation and she will need more of it.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.