Originally Posted By: Vanilla

You have no control over WW or any reactions she has, or her mother.

I dont feel like i said or implied i wanted control over their reactions? i just want them both to act like responsible adults.
They are both making something that should be simple overly complicated.


Originally Posted By: Vanilla

And your statement that she is hiding is inconsistent with you wanting NC.

Again, I will POLITELY disagree.
Just because I am identifying a behavior pattern doesn't mean i want her to change it or expect something different. She can hide all she'd like. Makes my life easier.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds