Hanging On (Saying ILY Pt. 3)

[mtb1981]

Validation is more for when she tells you she feels and certain way, you don't try to tell her she feels opposite. You validate that her feelings are hers and she has a right to feel that way.

I understand this. She told me she was upset because she was supposed to start tonight, and they called her and pushed it off, and she thinks she will not be getting it anymore. That's why I was asking if I should validate her feelings of disappointment and frustration...

It seems that the general consensus is to just let this one go, so I don't plan on sending her a text. I was just looking for a way to step up my validation game, because it has pretty much been non-existent...