Steve, I get what you're saying. I don't see it as necessarily validating her potentially not getting the job, but instead, validating her feelings on the subject. Like I said, validation is not my strong suit, and after reading through the validation cheat sheet, I got the impression that it was a good thing to validate their feelings. And it would definitely be a 180 for me...

Also, I think she's finally got it through her head that she's not getting any money from me. I've stuck to my guns on that one and I'm not gonna back down. And it could very well be the NGS trying to creep out too. I don't really know. I guess that's why I came here first for some input instead of just sending the text...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...