I'd say no, don't send the text. If you want to validate when she DOESN'T get the job, fine, but right now you are validating her potentially not getting the job?
I think this is your Nice Guy side coming out after feeling like you disappointed her with the "not interested in being friends" thing.
Also, likely the whole "i always call you first", "can we still be friends" thing is more than likely the "I want that $2k" rearing its ugly head again.
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