AD the narc that gave me spray over something she made up come around work and was hiding behind another person, she almost jumped out saying "hello" being all sweetness and light. sick sick

I almost had to choke back the snark who wanted to make vomiting noises, or a smart arse comment! grin

I did just let it slide, not worth the drama. Like really how childish...

So now it's been suggested the fact bf and me don't fight or argue is a drama, my take is neither of us can be bothered.

It's not that we don't disagree but there seems to be no need to fight over that meaningless crap we both had before. I guess the whole statement of it's not how much or the sorts of conflict but how they are handled that does make all the difference.

I tend to state things and then let it go... I get my releases and I think in a non threatening way...


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26