My New Scenario

[Newly20]

RR, i appreciate your response. I dont feel as if i have been pursuing her, i did have the 2 slip ups I mentioned and that was it. Perhaps me talking to MIL to see if there was anything had been said by W is a huge form of pursuit...and now that i sit back and think about it its a very desperate attempt. Big downer on my part. Oh well i need to learn from this one.

I feel as if the text conversation we had was a form of temp-checking. She said a lot about what she felt i was doing wrong per say, i feel in an attempt for me to wag my tail and make her think otherwise. Or at least for her to feel power over me. Next time i will keep responses short, i have read over and over in others situations and yet i still fell for the bait and poured my heart out basically.