Thanks everyone! Yes I agree we are all doing some mind reading here for sure. I do want to say that she can't really hurt me again per se because I already have my own life and inamntoall used to living without her. I believe that one day she will realizr she belongs with me but whether or not it's too late by then is not my concern. I am certainly not waiting around for her. If I have an opportunity to date, I'm going to. I have no limits on me. Do I hope she comes back? Well sure I do but its not like I'm going to be miserable if she doesn't. Whatever is going to happen will happen.

Now as far as what's going on with her. Not sure she had someone else. She had only been home a few months now so even if she is seeing someone i don't know that it would be anything that serious. Also we mustn't forget that she opted to contact me literally less than 24 hours after I was single again. The more time that goes by the more I look back on that timing and think it had to be intentional. She also made a point to stop at my work and ask how my talk with Mary went. So there's little things like that. Also when I initially told her I broke up with Mary she asked why and I said I was tired of her BS and she didn't appreciate my awesomeness. She got a laugh out of the awesomeness comment and said something like "I hear you about people's BS, Peeps are full of it." That suggested to.me that she wasn't pleased with her relationship (s). Past or present relationships she may have been referring to is unknown but that remark sticks out in my mind to.

In any event thank you all so, so much for your insight and thoughts here. They mean a lot. We shall see what happens next on this adventure together!


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14