I agree. IMO I was willing to stay very friendly if she was actually moving out to "find herself" and if she started dating someone down the road I would have dealt with it.

Totally different than jumping immediately into another relationship, that she lined up before leaving.

Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18