Even though i validated on the divorce situation, you mentioned that she will not feel pressured and wont feel like she needs to push it through. At this point, she has already filed so its only a matter of time, 6 months to be exact. Is there anything i should try to be doing to slow it down??
I have read the stats posted by 25 somewhere on these forums but going back to the same thing, what's there to do for her to get out of the fog.
At times i myself wonder if me not letting D3 go to the inlaws caused anger in W which pushed her to file, but again this is just speculation and according to Db its a big no no.
At this point i still plan on being as dark/NC as possible, I don't think i will change anything as far as trying to interact with her. I don't know if this is the correct thing to do or not, but i fear that if i start being extra friendly now she will see it as a big change only because I was served with D papers.
I'd appreciate any insight from you guys on how to move forward with this.
M:26 WAW:26 T:11 M:7 D:3 BD 1 10/16 I love you but not in love BD 2 2/18 I love you but... W moves out 3/18
