Steve85 thanks for the advice..

Found out she is going with big sis to soul coaching event where they can be certified to lead ceremonies for births, deaths and marriages. My W has been married twice and her big sis has been in 7 broken relationships since I've known her.What a bunch of BS.

My question now is this weekend I'm going to be switching my summer tires and doing an oil change, I usually did hers too at the same time. Do I just maintain the status quo and do it ? Do I ask her for her permission first? Or do i just let her figure this one out herself?


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18