Ok, here is my advice. Do nothing to help her. Make her do all of the work. Likely with her drinking problem she will NOT follow through on this. She will get frustrated and eventually give up.

Worst thing she could do is stop paying her share (if she is currently paying on it). Then you'll have to decide a course of action based on that.

Remember, seller has to pay the realtor's commission, that cuts into your equity too. Unless you sell it by owner, and then again put that all on her.

What broke my wife's fantasy bubble was all of the realities that were contrary to her perception of what could happen.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018