Steve: I am not on board with selling the house. I don't think that we have any equity in it (we have lived here for only 2 years) and we would get no return on the investment. She is pressing for the sale since she wants to D and needs the money for her new life after our M is over. She sees dollar signs, and a path to her new, happy, M free life.

My L suggested contacting banks to see if I would even qualify for a refinance of the mortgage. The mortgage is large, so it is possible that I won't qualify with my income alone.

M: 50 W: 47
No kids together
M: 10 T: 11
BD #1: 12/14
R #1: 7/15
BD #2: 1/18
D Filed: 6/18/18
D Final: 01/28/19
Currently still in-house