Rose your conjecture is unfounded. Perhaps you don't understand? Nor did you ask?
D15 expressed that she wanted a turtle. I surprised her with a fish. She's 15 and it didn't require an effort from W. W didn't express any dissatisfaction. D15 never told me that she gave it away. I just discovered it. Much like I discovered my Ws A 3 years ago.
If you don't understand the rest, it doesn't appear that you care to.
I don't see where your post is kind or helpful.
RR17, I have to say, this reaction to Rose is a little troubling.
However, related to the sitch, It seems your beef should be with your daughter. "You should have spoken to me before giving your fish away."
I think your anger towards your W is misplaced. That you want to find fault with her. Your situation is such that I think it is unrealistic for you to expect her to handle the situation the way you would expect a W in a healthy marriage to handle it.
Anyway, I think you may should just take a deep breath and realize that in 5 years this fish thing won't matter one bit. As LoneWolf said, pick your battles.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
