I don't think she has been influenced by the dates, and I don't think she is exactly scared the way you are all describing... I think there might be someone else on some level. Maybe she is unsure about him or is thinking about ending that relationship... I think she is attracted to you, and I think she jumped the gun in reaching out to you... Things were happening too soon, before she was ready... That's what I think is scaring her... She's being cautious... She doesn't want to make the same mistakes... She doesn't want her mistakes to hurt you...
