On a little side note. For those of you that have been following my stich. My wife has two older siblings. The eldest a brother who she rarely talks to. Maybe twice a year to wish him Merry Christmas and happy Bday. She has an older sister that lives 15 hours drive away. This is who will be traveling with my wife probably to some mystical place. My wife also made me cancel a family therapist appointment for next Monday. One where S15 was going to be able to share his pain and ask her questions so that he could better understand why she is doing this. As always it has always been about my W. Maybe it's my fault cuz I may have spoiled her and now she feels entitled. Since she was the primary breadwinner I always thought I had to make it up to her by cooking , cleaning, laundry, groceries. Now my wife looks up to this big sis. And thinks the world of her.
Back to big sis-This big sis has been thru 6 failed relationships since I started dating my W 20 years ago. This Big sis is a so called Life Coach preaching this new age religion things like Reiki, healing stones, psychic readings, naturopath and so on. Everything that goes against the teachings of the church. Now don't get me wrong- I have nothing against people with different beliefs but my wife met me and pursued me at church presenting herself as a Godly woman. We were married at the church - baptized our son and then renewed our vows after 10 years. Not once did she question our faith.
Two years ago when we went to visit her sister around the time of my S birthday - Big sis, my W and big sisters partner of 2 yrs did this ritualistic right of passage ceremony. Almost cult like- dressed in a spiritual robe with candles and incense and a Tibetan gong. At the time I shrugged it off as - whatever. Then I see books about channeling, and I know of 2 trips to psychics, and I see W have a fascination with the medium shows. To add to that, I have found out Big sis has just changed her FB status to single. Now 7 failed relationships since I've known her.
And this is who my W thinks is a relationship expert. My W talks with her big sis 2-3 hours each day. One other point is this Big sis has 2 grown boys - the youngest S30 hates his mom and will not call visit and wants nothing to do with her. My S15 has made this same comment to my W to show her the damage it's done to his cousin and now him. I cannot help but feel deceived and lied to for what I thought was a Godly woman is one who is now practicing pagan vales. Let me say again -who am I to judge- Just an observation.
Sorry for the for being all over the place and the long winded rant but my question here is is this a sign of a MLC (W is peri meopausal) or WAW? Please enlighten me.
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
