Don't be surprised that in the next couple of months if she doesn't show up talking about R because she has no where else to go.
I've thought about this alot. R is only going to happen if she shows a genuine change and desire to be with me. Not just because she needs a place to stay.
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019