Ok fully caught up on this thread. Thank you so much for putting this out there as it has given me hope in my situation. Your ExW sounds like mine. Also 100% think she is aware of the dates and they were influencing.
M 40 W 34 Together 7 Married 2 No Kids BD 1/18 need space Moved out 2/18 ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18 W filed for D 6/18 D final 10/18