I gave the van back to W last night. After a lot of thinking I came to the conclusion that I wanted W to know that I knew where she was at. Otherwise, she would have continues to lie and deny being over there. Even if I just drove by and saw the van there with my own eyes, she would have denied it. She will only admit to something if she is caught in the act, otherwise she just lies through her teeth. I packed up the rest of her stuff and put it in the van. Called her and told her that I never wanted to really take it from her, but I needed her to be honest with me and knew that would be one of the few ways she would come clean. I told her that she needed the van to be able to look for a job, and her and OM could do whatever they wanted from this point on. No more point in trying to hide it. She thanked me for giving her the van and was very cordial. Admitted to hanging out with OM a lot in the past weeks, but they were "Just friends". I told her I didn't care what they were. It's none of my business anymore. She mentioned something about things between us working out in the future, aand I told her that was something I am not interested in right now. Kept the convo short and sweet. I think this is the first time she has realized that I am done with the M. She said she wanted to see the kids and would be back later in the evening to see them. She never showed up...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019