I wasn't trying to be unkind. I was trying to help you think about why you reacted as you did to behavior from your wife and daughter that seems perfectly fine and normal and not disrespectful.
Clearly, I'm not helping, so I'll stop posting to your thread.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16