Rose your conjecture is unfounded. Perhaps you don't understand? Nor did you ask?
D15 expressed that she wanted a turtle. I surprised her with a fish. She's 15 and it didn't require an effort from W. W didn't express any dissatisfaction. D15 never told me that she gave it away. I just discovered it. Much like I discovered my Ws A 3 years ago.
If you don't understand the rest, it doesn't appear that you care to.
I don't see where your post is kind or helpful.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.