My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance

[joejoe1]

Ovr,

This is going to be the hardest journey of your life. The concepts here save people lives.

Read and research the approaches and techniques here as much as you can. When the Vets give you advice please read and reread what they say. Sandi, 25, AS, ACC, V, will chime in with Marriage and life saving advice. Take head. The others here will be your cheerleaders and provide great perspectives.

So, IMO you need to back off of your W. You are tryimg to control her and your Sitch way too much. Please go read the acronym page, there are alot used on this forum.

Your W is WW/lost. Your W seems to come from a high moral background and she cares what her family thinks. Stop talking to her family about you'll Sitch. You have to stop begging and pleading with your W.

She's trying to force the big D on you. Stop standing in her way. Start working on yourself and become a person only a fool would leave.

Get out with some friends. It's called GAL(get a life) in the forum. You have to start detaching. But please read up on detachment it has to be done with love and not hate nad revenge.

180 what you W says she didnt like about you doing the M. But remember 180s are for you.

Lastly stop bring up or talking a out your M, R, or D.(Marriage, Relationship or Divorce.) Just live your life and Don't force your W to Do anything she dont want to do.

Its called holding a person hostage when we force them or try to keep them in something they dont want to be in. I'm not saying not to be mean, but in your W mine, she probably feels like shes being held hostage, get out of her way.

J

Keep posting.