She did not know you were divorced

My w also has these inexplicablw lapses

Your w is not well and still in crisis

I keep praying for you

Working out like crazy is a physicsl manifestation of her trying to address her crisis

So many of us see that

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving