Coaching session notes

I am doing great

Keep doing what i am doing

Take care of kids

Be more open with older kids about what is going on

W is still in crisis

You cannot save her

She has to explore every path

Let her keep initiating with you

Stop doing the things a h does for a w

She does not act like a w now

Stop bending over backwards for her

She must treat you with respect

Do not protect her ftom her consequences

Be patient

This will take longer than you think

Expectations hurt you

Be compassionate


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving