Am I Piecing, or Pi$$ing in the wind???

[Accuray]

So you got some good feedback Clyde, your fan base here seems to think you're not really piecing but are instead enjoying a temporary stay of execution -- that was the same thing I went through. It was bad, it got better for a while and appeared to be piecing, and then it all fell apart.

Hindsight being 20/20, I think you need to be more demanding and definitive about what *you* need for this marriage to be good (versus adequate) for you. If both of your needs are being met, and you know it, you won't be living looking over your shoulder for the next time this is going to come crumbling down. You'll be able to relax and truly enjoy your partnership.

As with many stages of DB, this probably means making things worse before they get better. For someone who has been through a lot of pain, that's a really tough proposition I know.

The great news here is that when she knows you're at a walkaway point, she pays attention.

Acc